Friday, April 23, 2010

The Art of Listening

How many times do we have to listen to someone telling us that it is important to be a good listener?
Very many times. And for a very good and simple reason: because the ability to listen well is extremely important. Did you ever notice that when someone else is speaking to you that you have a tendency to be thinking about your response to them or about something totally unrelated to what they are saying (like, what is the time? I need to end this conversation)? To be able to actually focus on what another individual is trying to communicate is a highly valuable skill. It is a skill that is beneficial for friendships, communication between associates, marriages and virtually any kind of relationship. When you are able to fully understand another person, their feelings and point of view - it is at that point that you are in a position to really help them. And that is really what it is all about isn't it? Helping others.
This does not mean that we can only listen and never speak. Speak your mind. Say what you have to say.
But never discount the value of being a good, attentive listener. People will love you for it.

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